Thursday, November 18, 2010

Life is short, enjoy to the fullest!

Life is short, enjoy to the fullest!

Finally i understand the meaning of this phrase. Maybe I am already too late and old to understand this simple phrase :-)

It changes my perspective on love and life, from the correct and better side perhaps. A more realistic and positive side that make life worth the ride. I do feel so :)

I used to think that a relationship should always ended in a marriage

I used to think that a girl friend should end up as a wife.

I used to believe that the girl I am in love with is the girl I have been waiting and searching to be the life partner who will complete my life journey with me.

I used to think that love is always forever.

I used to think that the journey should start and end with the same person.

I used to think that....

I used to think that....


ALL these 'THINK' already did much sadness, dissatisfaction and false hope along my journey. It adds misery, sadness and tears.

Of course we have to think bout future sometime, but not all the time... because it make us miserable by HOPING for something unrealistic to become realistic. Or hoping from a blank paper to end up into a beautiful colourful drawing. This is the way that I had been thinking.

IT IS NOT THE CORRECT WAY! It is too far, too much, too long!
The desired destination may not be the destination that have been waiting for.
The blank paper may not completed with the drawing that have been expected.
The ending is way too far to be even sketched out!

Why not just go on with the process, enjoy the journey.
Don't think too far, enjoy while I can.
Don't have to think the latter, only the present.
Don't think naively bout those happy endings!
Don't hope so much because the disappointment will be greater than what I can imagine!

Or I can say, "let it be"!

Enjoy while I can! Enjoy those happy moments!
I don't have to think, I just need to enjoy!
I don't have to care, I just need to fill the journey with happy moments!
I don't need to think bout Tomorrow! Use the time to make Today worth my journey!

DON'T YOU THINK SO!?

Life is too short to fill in unhappy moments. We cannot prevent or avoid misery and sadness....but sometimes, we can choose not to have them. It's how the way we ride.... A change of perspective on life can make life happier and worth....

Life is short, no time to make us unhappy, unless it's unavoidable!

Life is short, enjoy to the fullest!